Re: Phil's post: Don't say you've said nothing because you've said so much. By opening yourself up to us like that (in a beautiful way) you can be assured that your words will come to rest on understanding ears. And accept our support for you staying straight (if that's what you want). But don't feel too down about her using one time. Maybe she needs to learn what you learned, in the same way that you learned it (and the only way to really learn it). I too have watched women I love take dangerous steps in different directions. And they always ended up being just steps. It was the steps towards ME that I really worried about. Beware Of Brier, he's worse than hard drugs, I tell them. But if you're concerned about her, and that she took e once, maybe try to remember how it helped you when you needed it. And you came through the other side. Not presuming to speak for the list, just for myself and others I'm sure. +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the undead Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail sinister@missprint.org. To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to majordomo@missprint.org. WWW: http://www.missprint.org/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "sinsietr is a bit freaky" - stuart david, looper +-+ +-+ "pasty-faced vegan geeks... and we LOST!" - NME April 2000 +-+ +-+ "peculiarly deranged fanbase" "frighteningly named +-+ +-+ Sinister List organisation" - NME May 2000 +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+