susannah's message got me thinking. i also agree that sexual orientation is getting pretty flexible. in fact, i have a friend who did his doctoral thesis proving that orientation and even gender are politically and socially imposed. i'm not sure how far i can take that idea, but it's interesting. i think my admiration of women is perhaps based on artistic appreciation. i can find a girl really attractive (i too, kiss my very beautiful roommate,) but i can't muster up quite the same fluttery/sexual feelings. i find the female form really beautiful as well, and i have to completely agree about men looking like women. there's something very sensual about it. just my 2 cents, laurel ----------------------------------------------------------------------- . This message was brought to you by the Sinister mailing list. . To send to the list please mail "sinister@majordomo.net". . For subscribing, unsubscribing and other list information please see . http://www.majordomo.net/sinister . For questions about how the list works mail owner-sinister@majordomo.net . We're all happy bunnies humming happy bunny tunes. Aren't we? -----------------------------------------------------------------------