I don't think this exists. I think if we could calculate "I'm getting over you time" we would be less than human--we'd be robots or computers or something antiseptic like that. I think whoever said that maybe we never get over people we have been with is right. Or kind of right. I know there are people that I still feel strongly about, and who I will probably never get over. I think the real trick is to find someone who has some of the same qualities as that person you have a longing for in your heart, not to replace that person, but to remember what it was about that other person that made you feel the way you do andit makes you appreciate what you find attractive about people in the first place. I know what I am looking for thanks to those people I could never get over. Just my thoughts on the matter. Brandt +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the reborn Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". WWW: http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "jelly-filled danishes" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+