As sent to Alix Campbell: I wasn't telling anyone what to write or what not to write. I tried to make it as nice as possible. I was just trying to give my opinion. You don't have to like what I say; that's your opinion. I like to let the world know what I think, and I think it's not so great to hear about assumed relationships and lifestyles of band members, or what some person who likes B&S had for breakfast--that was all I was saying. You said, "The point is, the lives and opinions of the listees are frequently more interesting and funny than staying on topic," and that only proves my point of 'opinion.' But the topic (B&S) is quite interesting, in my opinion, and if you don't think so, than I ask you, 'Why are you on this list?' I'm on this list because I would like to know the band's developments, accomplishments, and what their fans think about these things. So much is happening with the band right now that there should be plenty to talk about. I don't believe that I was being patronizing; I was trying to be as polite as possible about the situation. And who needs virtual cyber friends anyway? If you can't make friends with living, breathing people in the flesh, then you have problems. I enjoy communicating with fellow B&S fans, but I don't think a good, meaningful friendship could possibly be made through typing simple words. I'm interested in people's opioins and ideas and what is happening with the band Belle and Sebastian and maybe some similar bands, and that is why I am on this list, and that's what I thought this list was about. ...CARMEN... *********** REPLY SEPARATOR *********** On 11/12/98, at 10:35 PM, Alix Campbell wrote:
darling listy wisty
i am not easily offended, but what upsets me is people telling others what to write, or not to write. Carmen's post wasn't very nice, and inaccurate. It's not as if the topic is so far removed from B&S that we continually talk about australasian sheep farming techniques, or the like. if we talked exclusively about b&S, where would we be? discussions concerned solely with the middle eight of mary jo?, the merits of the slow version of seeing other people?. interesting - yes, but not forever. And who's to say that this isn't the topic anyway? Tear me apart and boil my bones, but being patronising is no way to win friends. But perhaps she doesn't want to. If so, i'd assume that maybe she expects something different from a list. So, my apologies, Carmen, i'm glad you like B&S, but you don't seem interested in the other people who like them too, and surely that is an integral part to this list?. But anyway, chances are she won't read this; there's no b&s content.
this is the last time i'm going to be so horrid.
alix. c
*****yes I KNOW i've been just as patronising, and opinionated.
"So don't approach me if you've no more to say than what you've been doing, or how much you paid for the beer in your hand. I really don't care and I might have to kill you, which wouldn't be fair. On me" - Prolapse 'Killing The Bland'
wot carmen sed.........
You know what I don't understand? Why is it that every time I check my mail, I have 175 emails all from the Sinister Belle and Sebastian fan club list, and usually none of them have anything to do with Belle and Sebastian. Why is this? I end up not even reading most of them because I know that if one is about Belle and Sebastian, it's about how Stuart Murdoch and Isobel might be a couple--who cares? I don't think either of them enjoy your assumptions of their relationship. Try keeping on the topic, please.
Kindly, ...CARMEN...
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