Just adding my two penn'orth to the debate generated by David-who-is-Ruth-McCurry's interesting post. I too utterly wasted my time at university and really regret it now. Doing an English degree, I had the opportunity to spend three years reading, thinking and expanding my mind and instead I spent it going to lots of really terrible nightclubs and being unable to get up in the morning. With hindsight I think the best way to enjoy college (should you be lucky enough to have the opportunity to go) is to balance your social life with at least a modicum of academic pursuit. God ! i sound like my Dad ! I think the first gig you ever go to is always going to be special, just because the whole experience is so exciting, it doesn't really matter who it is, unless, like someone I know, you've only ever been to one gig and that was the Flying Pickets. Some of my gig highlights have been Prince on the "lovesexy" tour - tears in my eyes during "The Cross". Happy Mondays at Leeds Warehouse - loads of mates there, the feeling that you're there at the beginning of something important. The Blue Nile - just being in a room full of people that are beside themselves with joy to see these people actually on a stage. David said he'd never seen anything in the theatre that replicated that feeling. At the risk of sounding like a mincing thesp, I'm lucky enough to have seen things that, for me, have. I grinned for days after seeing "Guys and Dolls" at the National last year and only last week Patrick Marber's "Dealers Choice" left a deep impression. I hope all that didn't sound pompous. I'll go now. Cheers, Adam. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- . This message was brought to you by the Sinister mailing list. . To send to the list please mail "sinister@majordomo.net". . For subscribing, unsubscribing and other list information please see . http://www.majordomo.net/sinister . For questions about how the list works mail owner-sinister@majordomo.net . Listen, this is pish, I think I'll leave -----------------------------------------------------------------------