In a message dated 11/25/98 6:37:13 AM, iles@boreas.leeds.icnet.uk wrote: <<That's why I don't think you can have "she and me" in a sentence - it's grammatically incorrect because the two words are incompatible being in different declensions (if that's the right word). I think it might be to do with one being passive and the other active, but I'm not sure.>> It's taken me 4 years to think about this more and more - I still can't come to a conclusion. However, when Amelia Fletcher "posed" that challenge of using "she and me" in a grammatically-correct sentence, she did say that there was a solution, I'm pretty sure she did. Alas, I haven't seen Heavenly or any other Heavenly off-shoot since that day (Oct 7 '94) so I've no way of asking Amelia about this, and she's probably even forgotten about that day (it was painful for her 'cause she had canker sores <aka mouth ulcers> so she probably tried to forget about it all) xox mike ps - happy thanksgiving! +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list please mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". For list archives and searching, list rules, FAQ, poor jokes etc, see http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +---+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" +---+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+