Lately I remembered a night, sometime around the time I was fifteen lying in bed at night and listening to the radio in the silence and the darkness. I heard two girls, that couldnt have been much older than I am now, but then seemed to somehow belong to another world, read out something like Self-alienated, a man doesnt even communicate with himself. Deep inside him lives a scared child that he hides well, especially from other men. If however a woman discovers it then he has another mother and hes definitely lost. The second castrates what the first one has left. Only when men sing and drink together are they (temporarily) free. (Of course, I didnt remember that by heart for six years. The girl was reading it off a magazine that was reviewing the book it was written in, and the next day back at those days, I was patient enough to stay in bed and wait for the next day - I found the magazine in our living room, cut the pages out, glued them together and kept them. It surprises me that six years and five times of moving later I knew exactly where they were. If I have killed it in the process of translating it, forgive me. It was weird in the first place anyway.) Yesterday, or the day before at three am, its not today but its not tomorrow either- I went back to the flat I used to live. Its strange how much I know and remember that place, how the way the walls are painted and the view from the back windows and everything is familiar so familiar I can still walk in it in the dark. It is also strange how much the boy that lives there is familiar, everything down to the way he messes up his room and the way he piles up things. And its strange how even the things he never did when I used to live in the next room are familiar too, how he looks more and more like he always looked in my dreams. We sang along to Hefner together in the half-light, let me put it to you this way, you will get hit by a bus, you will fall from your bicycle, and for a while, it felt as, as will put it, it could alter the structure of reality itself. He asked me if the song said that youll get hit by a track if you do bad things, and I fell over giggling and couldnt stop for a while, it made him turn the volume up and look the other way. Apart from giggling, I felt like crying too, I was moved to tears by the fact that someone can say that. And by the fact that someone can be a part of you and at the same time keep surprising you. He asked me to imagine how the room would looked if you were standing at the window opposite, he said it would look like a movie, and I didnt know what to say first: youve always looked like a movie, or do you think I havent imagined that already? I used to live here remember? But it was innocence, not carelessness or something like that, and it made me make lists of the reasons I like boys. In my head, of course, and with a clarity and accuracy that for my dazzled mind was surprising. Their smell and theyre being different being made in a different way and the wonder of two differently made creatures coming near I suppose thats how far it went. I said I think the song is about how all the things you could have done but didnt do will mean nothing when youre dead, which could be anytime, so do something pretty while you can. I just like it for the way it says it. I had woken up that day with an urge to play It Could Have Been A Brilliant Career in the silent house, in a theatrical way. To make a mixtape starting with it. To tell the world something, anyway, starting with it. Which would be strange, if not inexplicable, had it not been for the feeling of loss thats been haunting me the last few days. Loss of what, you might ask. Ill probably say I dont know. I might be lying about it. Cause all that was only for a while, and then he had to go and do different things with different people, and me, I dont know what I had to do. I remembered that night, though. I remembered the silence and the darkness that made me more open to all feelings. And what the girl read out loud. In a way, I didnt understand it; and in another way, I understood everything or at least the feelings behind everything, which, for me, is everything. And it was weird. How it broke my fifteen-year-old heart at the time I had no expectations from any boy whatsoever, so I was free to feel the sadness of it. And how Ive lived the rest of my life with a vague knowledge of it. Whatever it actually is Im talking about. Why is falling love so difficult? And why does it scare people when they want to fall in love anyway? And why do people run away from things? And why do people do things that don't really make them happy? And why is letting go of your fears so hard? Oh, please, do something pretty while you can, Dimitra xxx _________________________________________________________________ Join the worlds largest e-mail service with MSN Hotmail. http://www.hotmail.com +-------------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail sinister@missprint.org. To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to majordomo@missprint.org. 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