I had a dream that Looper played "Quiet and Small" for my friend Liz, who I also happen to be crushed out on right now. It didn't exactly make sense, because while Liz is quite wee, she is not very quiet. However, in my dream she found love when she found the one guy who talked more than she did. As for love...I started the thread about whether there is a perfect love or not. I think that no such thing exists because a.) there is no such thing as a perfect person and b.) "perfection" is an aesthetic quality and as such, it is pretty much impossible to define what that perfection would be. I've gone out with many women, and at some time been happy with them. I guess if it feels right, you should go with it. Right? (This could also apply to the thread about female masturbation...) Brandt +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the reborn Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". WWW: http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "jelly-filled danishes" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+