My lovelies: Normally Id post because I had something to say, or through a sudden rush of affection, but something else is making me write today. I hope it turns out to be more than the fear that Ill be forgotten about. Well see. To the untrained eye, it looks like Im doing alright. I have the dream job, a nice place to live, handsome friends, enough food and too much drink. The thought strikes me, however, that most of my time is spent working towards something that I may or may not have wanted at the time at which I set out, for reasons that may well have changed while Ive been busy paying attention to other things. The rest of my time, of course, is spent in costly and damaging escapes from my working life. There was meant to be something else. Im sure that Ill find time for the things that matter to me, that are important, that make all of this other stuff worth surviving. There will be a Sunday afternoon, a quiet evening in, a time when things ease back a bit. Where on earth do we pick up the notion that we can trust ourselves? I have thought a lot about happiness. It seems to me that happiness is the ability to look just far enough ahead. To strike a balance between doing what will make me feel good right now, and what will make me feel good tomorrow about the person I have been today. If anyone has any ideas on how to actually do this answers on the back of a postcard, please. I find myself happiest when at the point of beginning to tear open the wrapping paper knowing just the general size and heft of things. Anticipation excitingly narrows to an edge, then to a point. Idle wonder has been put aside: the thing has substance. Its nothing yet, though, so its still potentially everything. Theres not a thought spare for whats been left out; Im still unencumbered. I find less within me than I once did. I dont think that theres less there; I think I spend less time looking. Sometimes theres a message, a package, a phonecall, a song, a painting, a book. Sometimes a leaf falls from a tree and lands at your feet. Sometimes you think of someone, and they think of you. Sometimes you see between and through things. Sometimes this makes you feel warm, at others: cold. Im trying to make myself a better person. Ive given up the fags, cut back on the booze, lost some weight. Im working more, spending less. Im being more honest, feeling more. None of this is working, but Ill press on for a bit yet. I may not be principled, but at least Im stubborn. Some good things happened. I went to Melbourne last weekend and had some fun. I drank and danced too much (I drink well and dance badly) and talked to some people I dont know. I got some new records, which I really like. I played some cards, and won some money. A cocker spaniel decided that it really liked me, and wouldnt let me sleep for three nights, with licking my ear and jumping on my face. I didnt mind. Is this what its about? I guess I wasnt promised anything. Ive spent some time alone lately: I think perhaps its showing. Im normally far cheekier and less contemplative. I wont make a habit of posting when I find myself in this mood. Squeezing you lot into my lunch break, alongside an orange juice and a tuna sandwich in the middle of a long day at my desk isnt really an appropriate outlet. Still, youve given me a lot lately, so Ill give you something back, even if its not what you wanted. Take your time with the wrapping paper. Ive got a big trip coming up, for which Im not prepared. Its scary/exciting, and Im trying to look just far enough ahead. Well, I think that was worse than my usual post, but at least it was shorter. In any case, take nothing but the very best of care of yourselves, and stay lovingly rolled in flour and lightly pan-fried. Bulk love, -David. _________________________________________________________________ Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com/intl.asp +-------------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail sinister@missprint.org. To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to majordomo@missprint.org. WWW: http://www.missprint.org/sinister +-+ "sinsietr is a bit freaky" - stuart david, looper +-+ +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "peculiarly deranged fanbase" +-+ +-+ "pasty-faced vegan geeks... and we LOST!" - NME April 2000 +-+ +-+ "frighteningly named Sinister List organisation" - NME May 2000 +-+ +-+ "sick posse of f**ked in the head psycho-fans" - NME June 2001 +-+ +-+ Nee, nee mun pish, chan pai dee kwa +-+ +-------------------------------------------------------------------------+