Hi, Dave told us: << All I really wanted to say was that going to school and having the best or worst time is what makes you into what you are now, and if your happy with yourself now (which I am) then thats all what counts and in some way the treatment that you got at school helped turn you into that. >> But if people have dislike or ignored you all your life, not only at school, but also after (and I'm talking about almost 30 years), and noone ever really showed you that you aren't completely worthless, can it still be possible to be happy with yourself? If it is, can someone please tell me how? Thank you! Antje *if there's one thing that I learned when I was still a child it's to take a hiding* +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the reborn Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". WWW: http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "jelly-filled danishes" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+