At my job as a "barista" at an espresso joint, I too am faced daily with girls who are regulars, who I nickname simply "Mystery girl 1, 2, and 3...." Actually, mystery girl number 3 has never been in my shop, i just saw her once looking at pokemon things at a japanese shop in harvard square whilst a friend and I were getting a photo-sticker made. On the sticker, you can see by my expression that I have just laid eyes on a girl worthy of being a "mystery girl". Quite funny. At any rate... let me get to the point here... the "magic" and fun and excitement of crushes can only end. Once you get to know the person this overwhelming loving feeling disolves into either a comfortable relationship or nothing at all. and comfortable relationships can be so dull and unsatisfying. I hate being comfortable... the magic will fade and everything will become stagnant. The new face becomes an old hat and you can either move on or make the best of it. Im not one for relationships... i'd rather just have lots of crushes. and not share record collections or money. <3love gibby. I +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the reborn Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". WWW: http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "jelly-filled danishes" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+