Sinister: My life is a Go Sailor song
Honey told me I should try posting this again, and since I am on the digest I don't know if it posted, but I'll assume it didn't. If I'm wrong, I apologize. Now then... Now that my mom isn't sick anymore, let's talk about my REAL problem. I'm in love with someone. I have been for a long time now. I have mentioned her on this list before. She also happens to be my best friend. I love her. I'm pretty sure (95%) that she loves me. And yet nothing hppens between us. Why? Because she tells me she is scared. She wants guarantees from me, and they are guarantees I can not positively make. She won't live for the moment. She says, "what happens if we're together and I have to move to another city?" And I tried to make her understand that it would be more likely that we would remain together in any respect if we got together because if we got seperated as friends, I think that would really put a strain on our relationship. I don't do long distance well. I can't make any guarantees, but if you have 3+ years under the bridge with someone, don't you think that I would be willing to make a sacrifice? Of course I would, but I don't want to look that far ahead in the future. We are totally like that Go Sailor song Every Day; if you don't know it, I think this lyric describes us perfectly: Do I give my heart away? I do it every day It troubles me and I know it troubles you and the worst part is that I know you love me too. I know that's what bothers me the most--that i know she feels the same and she's just too scared to do anything about it. Any helpful comments or suggestions? Brandt +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the reborn Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". WWW: http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "jelly-filled danishes" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+
I'm not exactly an authority on women, but try writing her a wee letter, outline your feelings for her and tell her that you are *incredibly* serious about her, but that you can't possibly make guarentees about that sort of thing, because plans never work, but assure her that you *DO* have very very strong feelings for her, and promise her that if anything does happen, you'll do your best to make sure it works. Once again, good luck... -- Jason Andreas -- Hailing from Glasgow, city of half a million souls and one million people ICQ: 45821217 ----- Original Message ----- From: Brandt Fundak <bfundak@titan.dhs.org> To: <sinister@Majordomo.net> Sent: 22 October 1999 15:54 Subject: Sinister: My life is a Go Sailor song
Honey told me I should try posting this again, and since I am on the digest I don't know if it posted, but I'll assume it didn't. If I'm wrong, I apologize.
Now then...
Now that my mom isn't sick anymore, let's talk about my REAL problem.
I'm in love with someone. I have been for a long time now. I have mentioned her on this list before. She also happens to be my best friend. I love her. I'm pretty sure (95%) that she loves me. And yet nothing hppens between us. Why? Because she tells me she is scared. She wants guarantees from me, and they are guarantees I can not positively make. She won't live for the moment. She says, "what happens if we're together and I have to move to another city?" And I tried to make her understand that it would be more likely that we would remain together in any respect if we got together because if we got seperated as friends, I think that would really put a strain on our relationship. I don't do long distance well. I can't make any guarantees, but if you have 3+ years under the bridge with someone, don't you think that I would be willing to make a sacrifice? Of course I would, but I don't want to look that far ahead in the future.
We are totally like that Go Sailor song Every Day; if you don't know it, I think this lyric describes us perfectly:
Do I give my heart away? I do it every day It troubles me and I know it troubles you and the worst part is that I know you love me too.
I know that's what bothers me the most--that i know she feels the same and she's just too scared to do anything about it.
Any helpful comments or suggestions?
Brandt
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