Corpora Aranacea wrote: I really don't think the first thing that goes through a man's head when he sees a girl, consciously or unconsciously, is "God she could bear my offspring quite well couldn't she?" Exactly! I know that's not the first thing that comes into my mind, that would be will she let me... no, that's not it either! She(?) also wrote: Unnggh. I've come to accept that I'll never have a cowboy's ass. You never know, I'm sure there are some very accomodating cowboys out there! (sorry, crap joke) Anyway, whilst everyne seems to be going on about not being nasty to people of a larger build, remember that it works the other way too. A friend of mine is skinny, and is rather paranoid about this. She may be small, but I'd rather stay out of her way after somebody has asked her 'Are you eating enough' - it's not a pretty sight. As she correctly says, you wouldn't go up to a fat person and say 'Are you eating too much?' Take care, Paulxx 'What's the ugliest part of your body? What's the ugliest part of your body? Some say your nose some say your toes but I think it's your mind' - Frank Zappa. +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list please mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". For list archives and searching, list rules, FAQ, poor jokes etc, see http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +---+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" +---+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+