ahhhh..... as the playground turns..... I don't post much.... mostly because i usually get flamed..... but today it seems everyone is so too roasting gay's, lesbian's, crusaders and innocent bystanders.......... is this what we've come to? people prancing around like school bullies holding out stolen lunch money for all the other kids on the playground to see..... scary thought..... anyone who knows who they are in this crazy screwed up world is someone i respect...... these day's it's hard for most people to try and decide what career to choose..... we're all busy thinking about 401k's and pension plans..... comparing the market value of our home equity loans and worrying about the interest rate on our student loans that gave us a very expensive piece of paper that's worthless...... so if, among all this, someone can find love...... find the one person they believe in their heart was the person they were meant to spend eternity with.... even if it only lasts six months or two years..... i'm envious.... because they know who they are... they know what they want and they go after it.... if you're "gay" that means you're "choosing" to face incredible diversity..... wow - that's a pretty amazing thing...... that's what love is about.... what's sad is that instead of celebrating and supporting the efforts made by those to expose the foul attempts of politicians and fat cats who want to keep a portion of our society "in the closet", we're throwing around half baked ideas and insults.... the last time i checked no one here had a direct line to God.... or Buddha.... or Allah.... or anyone else for that matter.... so who is to say that this religion is right or wrong.....? Let the proverbial "Him" be the judge..... whoever that is... whatever your beliefs, follow through with them..... if you don't like "gays", then stand up for that.... but do it on your own time.... in your own forum where your thoughts and feelings can be heard, explained and understood... if you want to change the world.... change laws that forbid people who love each other to be married simply because they are the same sex..... then do something about that.... go out and try with reasonable debate and discussion to change the world and it's views..... don't let something as beautiful as two people's love get belittled into a mud-slinging match fit for five year-olds on a playground.... it's not right.... so, that's my two cents..... as far as sex goes..... everyone gets fucked... that's a cold hard fact... women often think they're making love.... but when she rolls over thinking about what kind of wedding they'll have and what to name their kids.... he's rolled over thinking about the clutch in his car which may or may not be slipping..... i'm not all that interested in my own sex life.... or anyone else's for that matter.... "gay" or otherwise.... i don't choose partners based on how i think they'll be in the sack (perhaps i should rethink this, eh? :) ) i have a feeling that "gay" peole don't either..... anyway - if you don't agree with me.... write me.... the world is changed through healthy debate and good conversation..... i'm open to anything anyone has to say .... instead of getting caught up in all this, why not get back to fluffy stories about daily lives and music? elle +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the undead Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail sinister@missprint.org. To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to majordomo@missprint.org. WWW: http://www.missprint.org/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "sinsietr is a bit freaky" - stuart david, looper +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+