In a message dated 99-07-26 13:52:52 EDT, you write: << So my question is this. Is there such a thing as the "perfect" mate? I have my own ideas on this, but I was wondering what some of you kids thought. >> i completely believe in the idea of there being a perfect someone for everyone. i don't think that the person fits all the criteria that you think you want when you think of your perfect someone. i think that what the perfect someone is when you find them eventually becomes perfect to you. i also think that, unfortunately, you don't always end up with your perfect someone. i've found the perfect one for me and too bad for me she's not aware yet that we're each other's perfect someones. i hope that she figures it out soon because i miss her. i saw her tonight at the bratmobile show and couldn't talk to her. it was miserable. i don't know why people like to write songs about unrequited love. it's a fucking awful thing. i suggest staying away from love as much as possible. if you never love anyone then you never give them the chance to not love you in return. that's my advice for the day, however un-tw*e it is. hope all is well with all of you. *alyssa marie* +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the reborn Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". WWW: http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "jelly-filled danishes" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+