Please don't be too hard on the *wingeing adolescents*, they need the list more than anyone...whinge away, you lovely young people, he was just kidding... Brandt, it would be a shame for you and her to allow inertia, shyness and the fear of unknown developments in the future to cause you to let what could be *the relationship* for both of you pass you by...it's like not learning to drive a car 'cause you might get a traffic ticket someday (well, maybe not exactly, but you know what I mean)....you two have to weigh the risk of kicking yourself forever over *the one that got away* against the risk that the future might not keep you together at all times...the first risk is real and will happen (that you CAN guarantee); the second might happen and might not.... Be brave, Brandt, and all the lovely Sinister-listers, from Uncle Dan +----------------------------------------------------------------------+ +---+ Brought to you by the reborn Sinister mailing list +---+ To send to the list mail "sinister@majordomo.net". To unsubscribe send "unsubscribe sinister" or "unsubscribe sinister-digest" to "majordomo@majordomo.net". WWW: http://www.majordomo.net/sinister +-+ "legion of bedroom saddo devotees" "tech-heads and students" +-+ +-+ "the cardie wearing biscuit nibbling belle & sebastian list" +-+ +-+ "jelly-filled danishes" +-+ +----------------------------------------------------------------------+