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[LeeannJea at xxx.com]

the lovely and talented sarah took the words right out of my mouth:

>  >Why is it acceptible to go after people who are overweight?
>  
>  Exactly! Basically it's HELLO mister western society predujice - based
>  just as much on economic market factors, diet industry, food industry,
>  face it, the way you feel is a business chicas. If everyone was happy
>  with themselves, why gosh! What the fuck would happen to the world? 

wow, can I get an "amen"?  imagine what would happen if everyone woke up
tomorrow and decided they were ok with how they, and everyone else looked?
billion-dollar industries would collapse!  no more anorexic teens on the chat
shows, it'd be all sexual dysfunction, all the time!  I might actually stand a
chance with my heart-stoppingly beautiful dream boy!!  ;)

>  After all I've done, I still don't know why thinness should be valued
>  so much, where in the history of the world has thinness been a
>  value? Perhaps related to class with upper classes being thin....
>  fat people are perhaps subconsciously resented, geee I don't know.

In countries where the birthrate is highest, the "ideal" woman is *way*
heavier than the "ideal" woman in America, cause a heavier woman communicates
fertility and health - important characteristics in a mother.  but in
countries where the birthrate is lower, so is the "ideal" weight of a woman.
in a weird sort of way, I think thinness might represent a liberation from the
traditional, confining role of mother, the sign of an upwardly mobile woman
who has set herself apart from the breeding masses.  I think the obsession
with thinness is really creepy, because being dangerously thin (as most models
are) takes away all your secondary sex characteristics - hips, breasts, body
fat - and it makes you look child-like again.  maybe the way some men
fetishize thin women has something to do with wanting a frail, child-like
creature, easy to dominate and totally non-threatening.  I don't know.

>  Read Fat is a Feminist Issue to find out more,

yeah, also read "Where The Girls Are" by Susan J Douglas, it's about growing
up a girl with the mass media, and it's not pretentious at all.  it's so
fantastic, she has this theory that the Beatles were so beloved because they
were this totally modern fusion of male and female gender codes, and they were
actually a trojan horse smuggling sexual rebellion into the sleeping fortress
of American morality!  woo-hoo!

the chapter on the psychology of the catfight is also very illuminating...


love!
leeann


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