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Cut me some slack, Tag, I get the digest, if I'd known I'd sent it three 
times I'd have apologized straight off. 
	O.K. SORRY EVERYONE I HAD NO IDEA WHY OR HOW I SENT MY POST THREE TIMES 
IN A ROW. IF I COULD HAVE PREVENTED IT I WOULD HAVE. 
	Why do you think I'm trying to give everyone the idea that I'm some 
kind of Soul Rebel? I don't have any hard and fast views on body image, 
all I've really noticed about it (or thought about it) is that the 
people =I'm= usually attracted to are the ones who seem perfectly happy 
with who they are no matter how they look, you know, the ones with that 
kind of inner dignity and confidence.  And some of them were real cows, 
too. Heh heh. I think =that's= something everyone should aspire towards. 
Really. The dignity and confidence part. 
	The only reason why I felt the need to reply was because (Fluffy?)'s 
post not only accused all men's desires of shaping women unhealthily 
(which is partially true but) also that we have some kind of 
easily-circumscribed monolithic desires. I don't think the crimes of 
eating disorders can be lain strictly at the feet of men, particularly 
after two weeks ago I went home for a weekend and at a sorority party 
the "sisters" had all their pledges lined up and invited people to come 
up and circle areas of fat on their naked bodies with black magic 
marker. Not that sorority girls are the best or brightest (nor 
fraternity brothers... some of them went so far as to circle the 
pledges' breasts (!??!!?) ) but that's some pretty frightening 
complicity with the patriarchy, no?  
	Somebody tell me at least what a perfect world would be.
	How did we get started talking about this? I really wanted lite cream 
cheese this morning, I swear, I couldn't help it.... just... one.... 
more.... bite...
	Hope this one sends just once,
										Love,
												Kullev

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