Sinister: My life is a Go Sailor song

[Brandt Fundak]

Honey told me I should try posting this again, and since I am on the
digest I don't know if it posted, but I'll assume it didn't.  If I'm
wrong, I apologize.

Now then...

Now that my mom isn't sick anymore, let's talk about my REAL problem.

I'm in love with someone. I have been for a long time now. I have
mentioned her on this list before. She also happens to be my best friend.
I love her. I'm pretty sure (95%) that she loves me. And yet nothing
hppens between us. Why? Because she tells me she is scared. She wants
guarantees from me, and they are guarantees I can not positively make. She
won't live for the moment.  She says, "what happens if we're together and
I have to move to another city?" And I tried to make her understand that
it would be more likely that we would remain together in any respect if we
got together because if we got seperated as friends, I think that would
really put a strain on our relationship.  I don't do long distance well.
I can't make any guarantees, but if you have 3+ years under the bridge
with someone, don't you think that I would be willing to make a sacrifice?
Of course I would, but I don't want to look that far ahead in the future. 

We are totally like that Go Sailor song Every Day; if you don't know it, I
think this lyric describes us perfectly:

Do I give my heart away?
I do it every day
It troubles me and I know it troubles you
and the worst part is that I know you love me too.

I know that's what bothers me the most--that i know she feels the same and
she's just too scared to do anything about it. 

Any helpful comments or suggestions?

Brandt


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