Sinister: My life is a Go Sailor song

[Jason Andreas]

I'm not exactly an authority on women, but try writing her a wee letter,
outline your feelings for her and tell her that you are *incredibly* serious
about her, but that you can't possibly make guarentees about that sort of
thing, because plans never work, but assure her that you *DO* have very very
strong feelings for her, and promise her that if anything does happen,
you'll do your best to make sure it works.

Once again, good luck...


-- Jason Andreas
-- Hailing from Glasgow, city of half a million souls and one million people

ICQ: 45821217


----- Original Message -----
From: Brandt Fundak <bfundak at xxx.org>
To: <sinister at Majordomo.net>
Sent: 22 October 1999 15:54
Subject: Sinister: My life is a Go Sailor song


>
> Honey told me I should try posting this again, and since I am on the
> digest I don't know if it posted, but I'll assume it didn't.  If I'm
> wrong, I apologize.
>
> Now then...
>
> Now that my mom isn't sick anymore, let's talk about my REAL problem.
>
> I'm in love with someone. I have been for a long time now. I have
> mentioned her on this list before. She also happens to be my best friend.
> I love her. I'm pretty sure (95%) that she loves me. And yet nothing
> hppens between us. Why? Because she tells me she is scared. She wants
> guarantees from me, and they are guarantees I can not positively make. She
> won't live for the moment.  She says, "what happens if we're together and
> I have to move to another city?" And I tried to make her understand that
> it would be more likely that we would remain together in any respect if we
> got together because if we got seperated as friends, I think that would
> really put a strain on our relationship.  I don't do long distance well.
> I can't make any guarantees, but if you have 3+ years under the bridge
> with someone, don't you think that I would be willing to make a sacrifice?
> Of course I would, but I don't want to look that far ahead in the future.
>
> We are totally like that Go Sailor song Every Day; if you don't know it, I
> think this lyric describes us perfectly:
>
> Do I give my heart away?
> I do it every day
> It troubles me and I know it troubles you
> and the worst part is that I know you love me too.
>
> I know that's what bothers me the most--that i know she feels the same and
> she's just too scared to do anything about it.
>
> Any helpful comments or suggestions?
>
> Brandt
>
>
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