Sinister: on liking hard men, home education and all the rest

[Vanessa Roseline Siegl]

Hello everyone ----


After reading all those posts on linking "emninem" and such ... I personally somehow ... fail to see
the appeal ...

 I guess I am someone who gets scared easily  and aggression directed towrwards me or others is
bound to either make me cry or go all sarcastic

(I met some prototypes of "hard men" in my life ... including one guy who gave me detailed
descriptions of all the crimes he had commited ... and as I was standing at the station waiting for
a train he told me how he would love to push someone when the train came in. I told him to say it a
bit louder and see how many people would step back from the rails then ...
He seemed to be on the outlook for a girlfriend .... believe me I was glad when he got off the train
and I was alone again ----)

Also I am much stronger than I look and very macho (ever since I helped my best friend (the one I
made a best-of belle and sebastian compilation nearly two years ago ... he even likes them)  to
clear out his  cellar his dad always tells him to "call the lunatic" when it comes to carrying heavy
stuff)
I am normally the one walks (or used to as I don't have one right now) round the car to open the
door for guys who got a lift with me .. who wants buy people drinks or at least pay for her own ---

My point .. hmmmm ... if I ever came accross "eminem" I'd RUN--- very very fast. And hide in the
toilett. And climb out of the window.


Home education .... 

I have quite mixed views on this ...
Arguments against it have mostly been that kids never learn to interact with others their age ..
True enough ..
But I guess you'll have to look at your kid as an individual ...and not map out all their future
education at a very early point in their lives ...


I dont think home education would have been a solution for me .. but "normal" school was a sheer
nightmare for me ...
I guess what I learned there via interaction was that I would never be liked and only tolerated if I
was lucky (except for a few special people)

What I also learned was that people don't forget ,,, once the freak always the freak ...
And I was lucky cos I never got beaten up ... just hassled by words ...

I guess there are ways of home education where parents get together and take turns in teaching .. so
you would have a group of say 20 children ...

that would also take care of the problem of one person heavily influencing a child / one-sided
education ...

take care everybody!   v/x

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