Sinister: Stewie's Complete Guide To Love

[Stewie-Louie Ratatouille]

Valentine's Day seems to have got many of us thinking about "homo amorous" 
("wo/man in love."  is that an acceptable construction?) with various 
degrees of sadness so I thought I would chime in with my take on the whole 
thing which may be peculiar but has kept me out of bad moods for a couple of 
years now.

In short, I simply don't buy it.  I ruined high school and most of college 
in search of my soul mate and figuring everyone who fancied me back was the 
one (thus I was crushed every time they proved to be otherwise).  I have 
decided that there is no such thing as a soul mate, the thing to do is find 
someone who is interested in doing what you are interested in doing and that 
you are interested in doing that with each other.  Don't put anything beyond 
that onto what you are up to (unless/until it sincerely develops).  It may 
sound less than romantic but it seems to be a more honest and more healthy 
way to go about doing things (at least for me).

All the mysterious gaming that goes on is compounded by the mythic 
proportions "love" has been awarded to create a situation where most of us 
will feel like we are missing out most of the time and that we need to hold 
on to anyone who remotely resembles a safe haven even at the expense of our 
dignity, self esteem and emotional well being.

So ... buck up!!  You all like good music and you are interesting and 
entertaining enough that people genuinely look forward to hearing from you 
(at least I do).

Now ... how do you do a group hug on-line?

Stewart


[Amour Fou is always illegal, whether it's disguised as a marriage or a 
boyscout troop--always drunk, whether on the wine of its own secretions or 
the smoke of its own polymorphous virtues. It is not the derangement of the 
senses but rather their apotheosis--not the result of freedom but rather its 
precondition.  - Hakim Bey]


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